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The S-Ateen Checklist
| 1. | Have you often felt hurt, ashamed or embarrassed by the sexual behavior of a family member or friend? |
| 2. | Are you afraid to upset the sexaholic for fear of his or her reaction? |
| 3. | Do you hesitate to tell your parents or other adult about problems you are having because you feel they have their own problems to deal with? |
| 4. | Have you sometimes found yourself searching for clues about a relative or friend's sexual behavior? |
| 5. | Has a family member ever asked you to spy on the sexaholic or to tell what you know about the sexaholic's behavior? |
| 6. | Have you felt that you were responsible for the sexual behavior of a parent, family member, or friend? |
| 7. | Has one of your parents or family members shared adult information with you that made you feel uncomfortable? |
| 8. | Have you lied to others or made excuses to yourself about another person's sexual conduct? |
| 9. | Have you felt confused and unable to separate what is true from what is not true when talking with the sexaholic? |
| 10. | Have you or other members of your family ever thought about or attempted suicide because of someone else's sexual behavior? |
| 11. | Have you been sexually abused or been aware that other family members were being abused? |
| 12. | Are you afraid to be alone with the sexaholic? |
| 13. | Has a family member or friend been in jail or other legal trouble as a result of his or her sexual behavior, or do you fear that this kind of thing will happen? |
| 14. | Are you having problems keeping up with schoolwork or other responsibilities due to problems at home? |
| 15. | Have you felt responsible for the safety and happiness of your siblings or other family members? |
| 16. | Does the sexaholic make comments or show that he or she is sexually interested in you or any of your friends? |
| 17. | Do you often feel you hate one or both of your parents? |
| 18. | Do you cover up your real feelings by pretending you don't care? |
| 19. | Do you feel to embarassed to ask for help? |
| 20. | Do you feel alone in your problem? |